Feb 28, 2022
Today, I'm interviewing Dr.
Darnyelle Jervey Harmon who is a growth specialist for
entrepreneurs. We're talking about the blocks that entrepreneurs
run into as they're building their businesses. We discussed how you
can stay motivated when you face failure with situations that don't
work out the way that you had first thought. Darnyelle has built a
very successful coaching company and she has faced incredible
hardship. I love her spirit and attitude in which she runs her
business and her life. She's very intentional and she's sharing the
journaling exercises and the practices that she maintains to keep
at the top of her game. I'm sure you'll really enjoy this.
Dr. Darnyelle shares her
insights:
- Like it was a hard. It was all of those things,
but I just knew that where I wasn't that moment wasn't going to be
where I was going to end. And then I was willing to consistently
show up for myself to dust myself off; to tell myself a different
story; to change the story in my mind, like I think that's probably
one of the most important exercises that I started way back that I
still do to this day is I write every every year. I write the story
of the year right. And so, this is the positive present tense
version of my life for 2022. And I like, literally, sit down and
I'm talking about myself as if this is already my reality for the
things that I want. And then, in the morning when I wake up, I read
it. I read it out loud because the things that we speak out become
the things that we experience in our life. And, before I go to bed
at night, I read it out loud because that's what I want to think
about that's what I want to permeate in my
subconscious.
- You know what I mean, it's so it's kind of like
that kind of energy like once you've accomplished something really
great the things that will attempt to derail you won't have the
power of derailment because you can hold on to the memory that
you've already done something pretty great and so that's kind of
really what it is. I believe in myself. I know that if I don't
believe in myself, no one else will. I know that my confidence will
close more clients; will hire more employees; will book more
podcasts or speaking engagements than anything else. And so, I wear
my confidence with everything that I have and I operate as if the
only reason why I don't have it, is because I haven't decided I
want it yet. It's all mindset.
- And so i'm extremely intentional about what I
allowed to be said and what I say about myself, because I know all
of that has the ability to determine how I show up at any
particular point in time. And for me, that is what gives me life;
that is what gives me the excitement and the energy to, you know,
draft an email that gives Leisa all excited when she reads it
because I just want you to know that you're, you know, every single
person I don't care what you've been through and I'm not trying to,
you know, denounce or not acknowledge it. But you went through it
to make you stronger and to make you better. And if it didn't take
you out, it's because there's still purpose for your life. There's
still something you need to do so let's get to what you need to do
instead of talking about what happened in the past, because that
isn't helping you. It's not serving you at any possible way. Let's
get to where it is you want to be instead by taking those
consistent actions; putting one foot in front of the other; saying
one affirmation in front of another; and saying it even when you
don't believe it so that you can eventually get to the point where
it is a belief that you hold and it gives you power to take the
next step.
- I did it before I realized it because I was
just being. I was doing. I was in action. And I think a lot of
times, we don't realize that - that is actually the way that we hit
the milestones. And, as we give ourselves grace, as we you know
really change the way that we see ourselves and open up an ability
for us to dialogue with ourselves to get to the point where we're
not so hard and stringent. Like there are very few things that are
black and white and finite; most things are flexible. And if we
allow that same flexibility into the way that we show up in our
lives and in our businesses, I think that will only create an
environment for us to win more and experience even more success,
instead of filling the damnation of failure.
Darnyelle is the award-winning
CEO of Incredible One Enterprises, LLC, a multi-million-dollar
coaching and consulting brand. Best known for transforming the
lives of her business coaching clients and live event attendees,
Darnyelle has one mission –to normalize millions for today’s
service-based entrepreneur. Fueled by her belief that if you didn’t
come from millions, millions should come from you, she teaches
service-based entrepreneurs how to shift from six-figure years to
six-figure months in businesses that serve them financially and
spiritually. Each year, 20% of her clients make the move to
millions while the remaining 80% grow their business by at
least200% and move closer to their million-dollar
company.
Darnyelle is a 7-time
best-selling author, the creator of 5 powerful business systems,
and the host of the newly rebranded to the Move To Millions Podcast
with Dr. Darnyelle J. Harmon.
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