May 19, 2022
Today, I'm interviewing Sandra
Pelley who is a very talented spiritual coach. She helps her
clients have more compassion towards themselves. We're discussing
the ways we're showing up to our lives, showing up for our
businesses, becoming more visible and how can you do more of that
in your life. I definitely had some breakthroughs and can't wait to
hear what you takeaway from it. Enjoy.
Sandra shares her
insights:
- And it's because they've been given this space
where they can develop the confidence, where they can start to be
seen. Now, does this mean that they've gone from not being seen on
camera to suddenly running a business where they're showing
themselves 100%. No, it's a process. Because you have to go through
each of those steps of first of all being heard. I think that's
probably the first one is knowing that you have something to say
and everybody's story out there is so important and show up with
that story. It's not whine about the story, but tell your story, so
that people learn from it and can grow on their own. Understand
that they've got something to say too.
- My bike was stolen. I felt violated and yet in
that moment of violation, I judged myself in that - Oh, but you
haven't been violated in a physical way. Well, stop that. I felt
violated. Own that feeling and speak about it with my community
because we have to recognize these emotions and feelings and own
them. Show up in that feeling that emotion that you're feeling.
Because it's so important because other people have those same
experiences. So, even though it was just my mountain bike, I felt
violated in the moment. And I'm owning that now because that was
such a horrible part and a horrible thing to have happened to me,
personally. And I'm recognizing me. And I think that's what's
important when we tell people our stories is we're giving others
the allowance to recognize themselves right now and show up
again.
- To start to see that there's other ways that we
don't have to do the ways that we were told they had to be done as
a child. And that's what this is all about. It's breaking those
expectations; breaking through those limitations and starting to be
okay with laying down the pathway of our own growth for our own
sake. Because you know what when I take care of myself, the growth
I've seen in my husband, there's no measurement where we would have
whined and cried and screamed and bellowed and even argued over the
stolen bike. We sat down the other day after coming back from the
cops and reporting it. And my husband made the decision that he
wanted another bike. He stepped into recognizing his value in that
moment, and for our relationship, like we're will be married 38
years in two days here right. And for him to be at that point now
where he's recognizing his value I've never seen this in him
before. And it's because of the work I'm doing on myself and my own
path. And when I heard him say yes, go to Calgary Alberta and get
this bicycle for me. It was just like this big mind blowing
moment.
- Be clear about what you want. So if you want to
be seen, be clear about being seen. The thing that when you start
speaking about this last little bit here, what do I want to leave
people with. It's a quote that I believe actually came possibly
from one of your podcasts that Lisa Nichols said - I must amplify
so I can amplify others. I know, by showing up and amplifying
myself, my light, my energy, whatever that is, my love for myself
that I amplified others. And that is a direct result to what I'm
seeing in my husband and in my community right now is because I
amplified myself so others can amplify.
Sandra Pelley - The Sandini - is
an inner peace mentor and the visionary behind the Guide Academy,
teaching you to go BIG with your Little You, also known as your
Inner Child or Small Self. She works with empty nesters who are
ready to make changes and have no idea where to start. Sandra helps
them through simple yet profound steps towards a confident new
version of themselves, one who can now be happy and have
fun.
As a wayshower and mentor who
helps her clients through and out of a period of time where
everything might seem like it’s going wrong, Sandra uses her unique
ability as an energy chameleon to flow to the epi centers that are
ready to be worked with. These are often events, limiting beliefs,
and expectations from childhood that, once revealed, can empower
these beautiful souls to new awareness around what has been holding
them back.
Sandra has many healing
modalities in her coaching tool kit. Life circumstances, a medical
background, author of her own book, A Spiritual How-To and training
in Reiki, Energy work, and Shamanism opened the doorway to
limitless potential which Sandra invites you to join her in. She
truly believes in infinite possibilities and that there is no limit
to what you are capable of.
Learn more about
Sandra:
Gift(s): 5 Steps to getting out
of your own way and getting everything you want by healing your
little you
https://mailchi.mp/54660f2fa24d/5-steps-to-getting-out-of-your-own-way-and-getting-everything-you-want-by-healing-your-little-you
Website:
https://www.sandrapelley.com
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/sandrapelley.thesandini
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/thesandinisandra/
Twitter:
https://twitter.com/TheSandini
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-pelley-the-sandini-53ab12117/
YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXpZM7Nqh-tKYgeTw2cqOjQ?view_as=subscriber